Matthew Sutmar

Nick's 2nd cousin, Matthew Sutmar, passed away last week. Matthew served in Iraq and was a recipient of many medals of honor. Matthew took his own life on March 4th. The priest at Matthew's service did an amazing eulogy for Matthew. He talked about the amazing sacrifices Matthew made and how loved and adored he was by his family. He talked about suicide and that just because someone takes their life does not mean that they do not go to heaven. He explained that Matthew was suffering and now he is in the kingdom of God and at peace. I believe that too.

Thank you Matthew for the sacrifices you made for me, my son, my husband, for this country. Rest in peace.


Matthew William Sutmar, age 25, of Hudson, Wis., passed unexpectedly on March 4.


Matthew was preceded in death by his grandfathers, William Sutmar and Patrick McConville; his grandmother Mary Cynthia Sutmar; and his uncle Steven Sutmar.
 Matthew is survived by his father, Thomas Sutmar; his mother, Cynthia McConville, and his sisters, Stephanie, Jessica, and Ashlee; his grandmother Audrey McConville; as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.

Matthew proudly served as an Army Sgt. in the Iraq War, earning numerous commendations. Matthew enjoyed a wide range of wonderful hobbies, especially hunting, fishing, and spending time with his three sisters. Matthew leaves behind many memories, lots of laughter, but most of all, love. "The soldier leaves the war, but the war never leaves the soldier."

Mass of Christian Burial for Matthew Sutmar will be held at 10 a.m. Monday, March 12, at St. Patrick's Catholic Church, 1500 Vine St., Hudson, with Fr. Gene Murphy officiating. Visitation will begin 1 hour prior to services at the church. Burial with full military honors will be held at Fort Snelling National Cemetery, 1:20 p.m., Assembly Area #5. Memorials preferred to donor's choice.